How to Word Your Wedding Invitations!

Ffion Davies @ Feb 19, 2025

How to Word Your Wedding Invitations: A Guide for Every Type of Couple

Your wedding invitations set the tone for your big day, giving your guests a glimpse into the celebration ahead. Whether you're hosting a formal black-tie event or a relaxed, intimate gathering, getting the wording just right ensures your invites feel personal and perfectly aligned with your wedding style. Here’s a guide to crafting the ideal wedding invitation wording for every type of couple.

1. Traditional & Formal Wording

For couples opting for a classic, elegant wedding, traditional wording maintains a timeless and sophisticated feel.

Example:
Mr and Mrs [Parents’ Surname]
request the pleasure of your company
at the marriage of their daughter/son
[Your Name]
to
[Partner’s Name]
on [Day of the Week], [Date]
at [Venue Name]
at [Time]
Followed by a reception
Dress code: Black tie

This structure is particularly suited to formal weddings and is often used when parents are hosting the event.

2. Modern & Minimalist Wording

If your wedding style is contemporary and refined, a clean and simple invitation suits the occasion.

Example:
Together with their families,
[Your Name] & [Partner’s Name]
invite you to celebrate their wedding
on [Date] at [Time]
at [Venue Name]
Reception to follow.

This wording keeps things sleek and to the point while still maintaining a warm and inviting tone.

3. Informal & Relaxed Wording

For a laid-back wedding, whether it’s a rustic barn celebration or a beachside gathering, informal wording adds a personal touch.

Example:
We're getting married!
Join us, [Your Name] & [Partner’s Name],
for a day of love, laughter, and celebration
on [Date] at [Time]
at [Venue Name]
Casual attire – dancing shoes encouraged!

This approach works well for couples who want a fun and welcoming invitation that reflects their personalities.

4. Destination Wedding Wording

Planning a wedding abroad? Your invitation should include clear details about the travel destination and any important information.

Example:
Pack your bags – we’re getting married!
[Your Name] & [Partner’s Name]
invite you to join them for their wedding celebration
on [Date]
at [Venue Name], [Location]
Further details and travel information to follow.

This makes it clear that your wedding involves travel and sets expectations for guests.

5. Elopement or Intimate Wedding Wording

If you’re having a small wedding or eloping but still want to celebrate with friends and family later, consider wording that reflects your plans.

Example:
We did it!
On [Date], we said ‘I do’ in a private ceremony.
We’d love for you to join us in celebrating our marriage
on [Celebration Date]
at [Venue Name]
Dress code: Smart casual

This allows you to share the excitement while keeping the details straightforward.

6. Same-Sex Wedding Wording

Same-sex couples may choose any wording style they like, but here’s an example that balances tradition with modern elegance.

Example:
With great joy,
[Your Name] & [Partner’s Name]
invite you to their wedding celebration
on [Date] at [Time]
at [Venue Name]
Dinner, drinks, and dancing to follow!

This wording keeps it warm and celebratory without conforming to traditional gender roles.

Final Touches

Regardless of your wording style, be sure to include:

The host(s) of the wedding
The couple’s names
Date and time
Venue name and location
Dress code (if applicable)
RSVP details

At Little Perfections, we specialise in beautifully designed wedding invitations that match your theme and style, whether it’s classic, modern, or something entirely unique. Let us help you create the perfect first impression for your special day!